| February 19th, 2016

Sextimonials: Tales of the Big “O”

By: journeymagazine

Words By: Chantal Gainous

Things get steamy, clothes drop, we trip over shoes, slam into beds and fall into pure bliss. But as many times as it happens – or doesn’t – there is always that one sexcapade that gives you that unforgettable big “O”. According to ABC News about 75% of women do not reach orgasm from intercourse alone, and 10 to 15 percent never reach climax at all. The reasoning filters down to a combination of lack of knowledge and comfortableness. Women don’t know what they’re looking for and their partners don’t know how to give it. But, orgasms are nothing to be ashamed about and area vital component to a happy, healthy sex life. Sex, like relationships is a give-and-take process that should ultimately satisfy everyone involved

These sextimonials are snippets into the good time we’re all looking for.

*Names have been changed to protect identities

The Tasty Lover

Best orgasm I ever had was unforgettable, I had an adrenaline rush like no other. I’m the kind of woman who likes the man to be in control while I enjoy every pleasure. The way he threw me on the bed and gripped my wrist while he kissed me all over my neck and breast was exciting. He then opens my legs and proceeds to swirl his tongue in my vagina, not too fast not too slow, just right. So much was going through my mind while he was tasting my sweetness. Like I’ve done this with previous partners but this one was a different experience. He was taking his time making sure I felt everything he had to offer. When I couldn’t hold my cum in any longer after being aroused for so long, I just released it all and I was left with the most beautiful unexplainable speechless feeling on earth.

Kimberly* Florida A&M University

The Sexy Ex 

Is it bad that my best orgasm is with my ex? Am I allowed to say that? LOL I remember we just broke up and it was the type of ending that was permanent. He came over to say hi and talk about things. We did. Then we hugged and I remember his smell being so fucking attractive. I missed it but didn’t want to. Our foreheads came together and we just stared at each other. We hesitated a bit but went in for the kiss. All hell broke loose after that. To say we ripped our clothes off was an understatement. Our naked bodies were always so in sync. I remember grabbing his ass as he was on top of me jacking me off. Damn he had a nice ass. We 69’d which we’ve never done before and I don’t know why. I was close to cumming when he got up and straddled me. He were making out like there is no tomorrow and I remember him saying “finger me.” So I did. “Deeper.” So I did. Then he was like “fuck me.” And boy did I. I slid into him and he rode me. We’ve never done that position. I don’t know why. “Fuck me. Fuck me” he said. He smacked his ass as I was cumming. His lips were so wet once he came down. Quite an eventful Monday afternoon. Oh shit, now I’m hard.

Henry G* Loyola University

The Office Quickie 

Office sex. It lasted about 5 mins, but I guess we call this ‘the quickly’. The risk of getting caught. I was at work and had my lunch break with my girlfriend at the time. She came back to the office after lunch to borrow a cable, and no one was there. I started to engage in sex. lifting up her skirt, kissing her, etc. She didn’t want to. I turned her around and spat on my fingers and put two inside her, over my desk. She was already wet. I literally just got my penis out of my trousers and pulled her panties to one side.  Sometimes the more layers you have on the more sensitive it can be when there is skin on skin contact. She kept saying ’no, we’ll get caught’ but at the same time was moaning in absolute delight. I held the back of her neck and went faster and harder. (Which I knew she liked). I came so hard I was dizzy. I pulled out of her and came in her mouth. It was quite a cliched office sex story, but it was so hot. It was he summer and she had this white dress on that day. She looked so beautiful and I remember that orgasm being really intense.

Ben* London

Dirty Dancing

So get this, I’m checkin’ out this really cute chick, right? We making eyes at each other on the dance floor, so naturally, I grab her and start grinding with her. I’d been fingering her under her dress and sh*t and she was copping a feel while using her thigh to rub on my d*ck. Lord, I was feeling it. I got a fetish for big [breasts]; I started staring so hard and she was looking so delicious, you have no idea. Before I know it, we actually frenching each other. She got up and grabbed my hand and walked me to her room down the hall. She gave me them bedroom eyes, my ni**a, and it was on.  Okay, I struggled a little bit with her bra. It was one of the open fronts and it was dark. You know I’m just gettin’ outta this two-month dry spell and I’m bussin’ it good and hard, so when them [breasts] started twirling and jigglin’ in my face like they doing jumping jacks – I couldn’t keep it in! My dick had a heart attack on her [breasts]. I went about another half round before she finally finished me.

An Unforgettable Spring Break 

Spring break ‘14. I visited my girlfriend in California. I vividly remember her back against the wall and her thighs soaking wet before her panties came off… the hall barely big enough to accommodate me pounding her into the wall… bodies wrapped, time warped… an intense eternity. Her sweaty forehead, her grimace, her soft ass. The ending fit the episode. Extraordinary. Euphoric. Unforgettable.

Additional Sextimonials Stories

Love-Making Session

When I was first in love, or perhaps in love with the idea of love. It was slow, warm, low lit, soft music, gentle sex. I guess it sounds a bit text book, but we were both very much in that moment. We had been having foreplay together for maybe two hours. She had already had three orgasms through clitoral stimulation. When we started to have sex, we were writhing around in various and all positions. We were trying new things.  We got in that sitting up position. Where we are kissing each other, facing each other as she’s siting on my lap. I was really hard and really deep inside her. It was truly like mediation. We were one.  I know its sounds cheesy but its true. She had her first orgasm from penetrative sex. She was controlling the movements of her hips and grinding down on my penis as she held my chest and neck. I was holding her hips and down to her a**, helping take her bodyweight, slow lifting her up and down on my penis with her movements. As she came, her hot breath in my ear (we are both sweating now), she whispered she was cumin and her grip tightened..everywhere. Her pu**y claimed onto my penis as did her hands on my back, her legs started to shake and there was this warm flowing gushing that flooded my penis. It was so intense, I did the same, I said to her I was cumming as we were kissing. She quickly came off my penis and sat between my legs jerking me off as we still kiss. I came so hard that the cum was spurting up hitting our faces as we kissed. She licked the cum off my mouth and chin.

Threesome! I’ve had two threesomes. 1 was terrible, 1 was amazing. The amazing one was actually planned. Normally spontaneity works better, but in this case planning it was good. We all wanted a threesome and after a failed attempt years before, I thought it was time to give it another go. A girl I knew instigated in and said she had a friend, also a girl. I met the friend 1 on 1 first, just to get to know each other. The three of us spoke on messenger for maybe 5 months leading up the threesome. Lots of fantasy sharing, ideas, planning, masturbating together. It was fun and exciting and we were all on a par. They were both very submissive and wanted me to control the situation. We pretty much did everything you could imagine in a threeway situation. We were in my apartment. We had been out for dinner, bought snacks and wine and when back to mine.  I think they must have cum about 6 or 7 times each. I made them have sex whilst I watched. As they were 69ing I knelt in front of one of them and was fucking her missionary. i told the girl on top to turn around and ride her face. She was facing me, kissing me, and stroking my cock into the other girls pussy, whilst getting her pussy eaten. It was like this triangle of everyone getting off on each other. The more she kissed me the harder i got and the deeper I fucked the girl on her back, as that happened, she would moan and talk dirty and the girl on her face would press her pussy down harder on her mouth. the girl getting her pussy eaten came first and she’s a squirted. She squirted all over the other girls face, her juice was spraying out over her face and down her chest, as this happened I was the hardest Ive ever been. I was fucking the other girl really hard at this point, who also came, as that happened I couldn’t take it any more. I pulled my cock out and sprayed cum all over both of them. It was a very hot wet sticky mess everywhere.  They both stayed the night and we had sex about 5 more times. They showered together.

Menage A Trois

I’ve had two threesomes: one  was terrible, one was amazing. The amazing one was actually planned. Normally spontaneity works better, but in this case planning it was good. We all wanted a threesome and after a failed attempt years before, I thought it was time to give it another go. A girl I knew instigated in and said she had a friend, also a girl. I met the friend one-on-one first, just to get to know each other. The three of us spoke on messenger for maybe 5 months leading up the threesome. Lots of fantasy sharing, ideas, planning, masturbating together. It was fun and exciting and we were all on a par. They were both very submissive and wanted me to control the situation. We pretty much did everything you could imagine in a threeway situation. We were in my apartment. We had been out for dinner, bought snacks and wine and when back to mine.  I think they must have cum about six or seven times each. I made them have sex whilst I watched. As they were 69ing I knelt in front of one of them and was fucking her missionary. I told the girl on top to turn around and ride her face. She was facing me, kissing me, and stroking my cock into the other girls pu**y, whilst getting her pu**y eaten. It was like this triangle of everyone getting off on each other. The more she kissed me the harder I got and the deeper I f****d the girl on her back, as that happened, she would moan and talk dirty and the girl on her face would press her pussy down harder on her mouth. The girl getting her pu**y eaten came first and she squirted. She squirted all over the other girls face, her juice was spraying out over her face and down her chest, as this happened I was the hardest I’ve ever been. I was f*****g the other girl really hard at this point, who also came. As that happened, I couldn’t take it any more. I pulled my c**k out and sprayed cum all over both of them. It was a very hot wet sticky mess everywhere.  They both stayed the night and we had sex about five more times. They showered together.

Ben, London

The Controller 

The best orgasm I ever had came from the first time I had rougher sex. He took his time, kissing and biting my neck and back, it’s like he knew exactly what I wanted and how far he could go. He pulled my hair and made me beg for it before he’d give it to me. I started breathing harder and arching in to him while he went hard and fast. I couldn’t even form words, my voice gave out, all I could do was silently beg him not to stop.

Valerie*, Florida A&M University